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Pre and Post-Marital Counselling

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…what if you don’t have any of that? Well, you educate yourself, yourself about the limits of Allah SWT! Because really what was enough for them, i.e. the Sahaba and Sahabiyaat (may Allah SWT be pleased with them all), is enough for us inshaa’Allah. We don’t need any help from outside sources because the barakah (blessing), the hikmah (wisdom) and the faDL (bounty) lies in the Quraan and Sunnah. One who adheres and strives to adhere to Allah SWT’s Teachings, Allah SWT will be sufficient for him whether it is him struggling in being thankful for being granted a smooth marital life or him being patient in turbulent times. One who deviates from the Path of Allah SWT then he has opened himself to Allah SWT’s Punishment whether it is in the form of disharmony in marriage, disobedient children or being blessed with an excellent spouse but not having an atom’s worth of Eeman or thankfulness. No doubt Allah SWT is At-Tawwab, the Greatest and Continuous Acceptor of Tawbah, we must turn to Him in repentance whenever we feel our lives seem to have certain obstacles because that was the way of the Salaf. Don’t ever forget though that our greater purpose in life is to worship Allah SWT through our relationships and not worship our relationships/people in our lives. Allah SWT is Ar-Ra’oof -Most Affectionate – to His Slaves and He SWT may test us through whom we love and through our Qadr (fate) not to make us suffer but to grant us His Mercy and many more blessings. Trust Him on that for He gave you life.

May Allah SWT support us with spouses and children who are the coolness of our eyes, those who revive our souls with His Remembrance in mutual affection, mercy and harmony, and make us all the leaders of Muttaquun. May Allah SWT raise from our generations, our descendants, via our good tarbiyah those who give Quraan its Haqq, those who’s character is that of the Quraan and those who have the characteristics of Sahaba and Sahabiat.

Ameen.

And Allah SWT knows best.

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AUDIO/VIDEO

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‘Salah and Marriage’ by Ustadh AbdulNasir Jangda

Here |

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‘Bed of Roses’ by Sh. Adnan Abdul Qadir

Description: A Bed of Roses is of unique lectures in Arabic and English by Shaikh Adnan Abdul Qadir (Kuwait) on the guidelines that Islam provides in developing a loving and harmonious environment in the home. Shaikh Adnan expounds upon each topic using his unique style of delivery; quoting examples from the Quran, authentic sunnah and from his profound experience. A must buy for anyone wishing to strengthen their relationship with their spouse and/or children.

|The Ettiquette of Conversation Part 1| The Ettiquette of Conversation Part 2 | How to change the angry Spouse to a Beloved One Part 1 | How to change the angry Spouse to a Beloved One Part 2 | How to win the Heart of your Spouse Part 1 | How to win the Heart of your Spouse Part 2 | Bringing up Children Part 1 | Bringing up Children Part 2 | Bringing up Teenagers | Love of Allaah |Recitation |

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‘Fiqh of Love’ by Sh. Yasir Birjas

Description: The Fiqh of Marriage in Islam is the official recording of an AIMaghrib Institute seminar. This takes a detailed look at the process and rites of marriage in Islam as explained by Shaykh Yaser Birjas. The seminar begins with a discussion of the various concepts of love as defined by Islam and other competing theories. It then presents the flqh of marriage beginning with the search for a suitable spouse, following the entire process including the details of the marriage contract and then concluding with advice for marriage life. This amazing seminar is a testament to the comprehensive nature of Islam as well as to the mercy and sensitivity of Allah that He should make clear to us the right way even in our most intimate affairs. Insha’Allah, you’ll witness your Eman growing stronger as your understanding of the wisdom of the Qur’an and Sunnah comes alive in your mind, in your soul, and in your heart.

 |Part 1| Part 2| Part 3| Part 4 | Part 5 | Part 6 | Part 7 | Part 8 |

|Part 9 | Part 10| Part 11 | Part 12 | Part 13 | Part 14 | Part 15 |

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 By Br. Akram (I don’t know the speaker but lectures are nice mashaa’Allah):

|Part 1| Part 2| Part 3| Part 4 | Part 5 | Part 6 | Part 7 |

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‘Mars and Venus’ by Sh. Riad Ourzazi

|Part 1| Part 2| Part 3| Part 4 |

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‘Establishing An Islamic Household’  by Sh. Abdul Muhsin Al-Tuwaijri

|Here|

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By Sh. Muhammad al Shareef 

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‘Qualities of Great Women’ by Sh. Anwar

| Here |

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‘Towards a Happy Marriage’ by Sh. Mohammad Yusry & Sh. Salim al Amry

Here |

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‘Domestic Confrontations’ by Abu Mussab

| Here |

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The Perfect System To Keep Your Family Together – The Deen Show with Imam Moustafa Zayed

| Here |

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By Dr. Bilal Phillips

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By Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan

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By Sh. Salem Al Amry

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By Sh. Said Rageah

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By Sh. Murtaza Khan

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By Alyas Karmani

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By Dr. Haitham al Haddah

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By Dr. Hesham al Awadi

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By Dr. Farhat Hashmi (Urdu)

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